1}You pick the wrong person because you expect him/her to change after you’re married. The classic mistake! NEVER MARRY POTENTIAL!! The Golden Rule is, if you can’t be happy with the person the way he or she is now, don’t get married. As a colleague of mine so wisely put it, “You actually can expect people to change after their married…for the worst!†So when it comes to the other person’s spirituality, character, personal hygiene, communication skills, and personal habits, make sure you can live with these as they are now.
2} You pick the wrong person because you focus more on chemistry than on character. Chemistry ignites the fire, but good character keeps it burning. Beware of the “I’m in love†syndrome. “I’m in love†often means, “I’m in lust.†Attraction is there, but have you carefully checked out this person’s character? Here are four characteristics to definitely check for:
Humility: Does this person believe that “doing the right thing†is more important than personal comfort?
Kindness: Does this person enjoy giving pleasure to other people? How does s/he treat people s/he doesn’t have to be nice to? Does s/he do volunteer work? Give to charity?Responsibility: Can I depend on this person to do what s/he says s/he’s going to do?
Happiness: Does this person like himself? Does s/he enjoy life? Is s/he emotionally stable? Ask yourself: Do I want to be more like this person? Do I want to have a child with this person? Would I like my child to turn out like him or her?
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Da Da Da Da
The smell of your skin lingers on me now
Your probably on your flight back to your home town
I need some shelter of my own protection baby
To be with myself and center, clarity
Peace, Serenity
[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But Ive got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
The path that I’m walking
I must go alone
I must take the baby steps until I’m full grown
Fairytales don’t always have a happy ending, do they
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And I foresee the dark ahead if I stay
[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I’ve got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry
Like the little school mate in the school yard
We’ll play jacks and uno cards
Ill be your best friend and you’ll be mine
Valentine
Yes you can hold my hand if u want to
Cause I want to hold yours too
Well be playmates and lovers and share our secret worlds
But its time for me to go home
Its getting late, dark outside
I need to be with myself and center, clarity
Peace, Serenity
[CHORUS]
I hope you know, I hope you know
That this has nothing to do with you
It’s personal, Myself and I
We’ve got some straightenin’ out to do
And I’m gonna miss you like a child misses their blanket
But I’ve got to get a move on with my life
Its time to be a big girl now
And big girls don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
Don’t cry
La Da Da Da Da Da
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You bet I really had a LONG vacation huh 
. It takes time to run the bike when you’re shifting to a new different track in one time. But I’ve never been happy like this..I love hearing my new surname..Mrs. Erhardt.
We had a simple and solemn wedding last 18th of this month. We were ‘kind of’ rushing the paperworks of getting married since there are a lot more of paperworks to do. When I get here last May 30th, my visa as a K-1 (Fiancee) is actually a visitor’s visa. And by getting married we can then apply for my AOS( Adjustment of Status), from visitor to an immigrant (conditional) and after years I need to lift the conditional..and so on and so forth. Geez, can you imagine the paperworks?
But then, its all worth it cause after all, its my happiness. So I guess, I am back now. I’ll share my life here and thanks for always dropping by.
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I am here in the US now with Carlo. I was SO busy for the last days and thanks guys for coming back here even if I wasn’t here. Ngeee, dako diay kaayo ilang airport diri no, unya ang parking lot abe nako og Hotel..hahaha. Well,I would be a liar if i’ll deny that..tinood gyud, abe gyud nako og hotel kay taas man kaayo ang building pero parking lot ra diay.But anyway, I’m the happiest person alive..nag-uban na gyud mi. Di man lalim nga lagyo gud, but now, we’re happy na.
It’s way different here in the States, ang adlaw dugay musalop (kay summer man), ang pagkaon (although recently Fil foods pa akong ginakaon kay naa pa man mi sa akong mga in laws nagbakasyon), ang ways of life diri kay lahi ra sa atoa ( as per my observation)..and I’m learning everyday. I’ve got the chance to meet my hubby-be’s cousin’s, friends and relatives everyday so I’m quite a bit busy. And let me have this space to say thank you to my in-laws and my hubby-be’s relatives and friends for widely accepting me and helping me adjust. I love you guys.
Thanks also to my ever loving family in GenSan and in Davao for always being by my side, I love you also. Sheng, cousin dearest..I love you and thanks so much for lifting my spirits up.
This is all for now, magke-kwento ako ulit next time. I need to go to bed, its already 12 40am here.
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